Before The Person :: Relationship Goals (Part 1)

What we bout to start a series, that’s about to be awesome. I

Think this is one of those things that

God wanted to happen in this timing. I’m

talking about

relationships and

We titled this message relationship goals because we know that’s something that is in popular culture

And we see different things all the pictures that that we saw earlier people say oh

that’s the kind of relationship that I want and that’s what I

Want from my life eventually and all these things so I thought it would be appropriate for us to do a series about

relationship goals

and

we’re going to start from the beginning and we’re going to go all the way through this thing you do not want to miss the

Next six weeks because this series

We’re going to talk so real some stuff has not been said in a church you’ve ever been in before

But we’re going to say that right here. Oh

Because I really do believe that relationships are

Being defined more by Pop culture and what the world says

then what the word of God says and

Because many people don’t teach it with balance and with understanding and with wisdom it just seems more easy

To go with what everybody else is doing, but I really do believe that

God is going to give wisdom and revelation through this series

And I am ready for us to start being an example of what relationships should look like

these happiest hours

No, no, but honestly when people think of relationships. They don’t look at the church

When they think about relationships they don’t think about Christians

When they think about relationships, they don’t think about God’s people

And there’s a reason and honestly if we be real real about many believers have failed that relationship

Many people save sanctify love. God something clapping all day and die lonely

Preach to the Nation’s have no Friends. I

Mean if we’re honest with it

Many of us have had more

sexual relationships than we have had cars

You get a new one of those every three to five years

Let’s be honest

because if we’re not then we never ever get to see we think that’s normal and

What I came to tell you is that some of these things that we’ve been doing that I’ve done okay?

So don’t visit all he done came back. He judging up no I?

Did it but it was because nobody told me they never showed me they never laid out for me

what is the biblical model of

Relationship, how are we supposed to go out normal I suppose Si for America. I know I’m supposed to be in a monogamous relationship

I know I’m supposed to date court. Have a front what which one?

tell me how

show me how

Show me what the word says about it. So we don’t do all of that in this series today is an introduction

because I’ve been stopped up spiritually for five weeks and

This one practice could be for hours easy, but it’s going to be 40 minutes this morning amen and so

I want to just kind of set the table for what this thing looks like a man

Why don’t you get out your notes and and get up your bibles right now? I want to look at this from just the terminology

relationshipgoals everybody say relationship goals

Say it one more time like you many relations

Okay, so how many would say they have some relationship goals like there’s something that you desire and related people scared to lift a handed

Like I don’t know

Okay, how many people have some relationship goals friends family?

Married you have goals in your relationship. I really think a lot of people understand the relationship part of it

They understand that they want to be connected with somebody they understand that they want to walk and talk with somebody

But the goal part, I think is a little

Misconstrued or a little distorted and I want to look at the definition of gold, okay? A goal is the result or

Achievement towards which an effort is directed?

So effort has to be directed to reach a goal

It’s the aim or it’s the end now